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I *heart* my job
Published on May 4, 2006 By Sugar High Elf In Misc
I may lose my job for doing my job. That's just how it goes.

I can't give many details, but here's what I can tell you. I work with college freshmen girls as their "dorm mom" of sorts. Today, most of them are moving out. They are sophomores now, and I am so proud of them. Well, most of them.

I've had problems with this one girl all year. She thinks I "have it out" for her. Or at least that's what her father told my boss when I charged her $100 for damages done to her room.

I have proof and lots of it. I have pictures of the shelves she screwed into the walls, after I told them, "No holes, or you get charged!" I also have photos of the bad cover-up job she did trying to fix the holes. I have witnesses to both the drilling of the holes, and the diy fix up. I have other people who told me she planned to pull a fast one so I wouldn't find the holes.

I was actually nice and didn't charge her for every hole -- that would have equaled around $400 or more. I just charged her for the ones I could prove.

But now, her parents are saying that I went after her unfairly. They're saying I told her suitmates I would go easy on them. They're saying I was rude to her and her parents (the dad wasn't actually there). And, their exact words were, "We'll get someone to take care of it. We won't have to pay."

My problem is, they're probably right. They probably won't have to pay up. Worse than that, I could get in trouble for what they are saying, even if they have no proof and I have lots. My boss, and her boss, are more worried about pleasing the students than following the rules they set down. I have a very hard time doing my job when I'm overrulled ALL THE TIME.

I should have asked the Mom, "Did you put the holes there? Then why are you fighting this?" Except, that would have been rude. Plus, she would have lied, just as her daughter has lied all year long. In fact, Princess, as I like to call her, has a problem with the truth. She thinks I don't like her (which is starting to be true) because I wouldn't believe her lies and let her run her roommate off. She tried to force the poor girl out. The roommate eventually moved and got married. "Princess" refused to share her side of the bathroom with her roommate, and told her she'd have to share with the other two girls. Why? Why should one girl have one side of the bathroom to herself with the other three share the other side? Because she's the Princess.

I don't get these people. She should get everything she wants, and gets away with everything she does. And when I finally try to show her the "real world" I'm the mean one who just doesn't like her.

Well, I guess she's right. I tried to like her, but now, I just can't. The girl is a bitch, let's be honest. And, unfortunately for her, she's in a brand new building. Every hole will have to be hers. She can't blame it on anyone else. And while she isn't one of mine, I might get some evil pleasure out of watching the charges go higher, and higher, and higher...


Comments
on May 04, 2006
Who set the rule for $100 per hole? If it was your boss, then I don't see how this would fall on your shoulders.

I don't miss dorm life. Toward the end of my "sentence" in such atmospheres, I was determined to live alone ASAP. And I did. It was great.

I hope Princess can eventually learn to get along with others and learn that she ain't no Princess. I wonder if she's an only child?
on May 04, 2006
It's only $10 per hole, but since she discolored large parts of the wall, it's $100 to repaint the whole wall. It's a special paint that is supposed to prevent mold.

She isn't an only child either... I thought so too at first. But turns out they're all like that, including the parents.
on May 04, 2006
Wow . . . I don't envy you having to work with kids like that.

I remember living in the dorms - our walls were made of brick. I don't think I could've put holes in them very easily . . .
on May 04, 2006
She's the only kid like that. I absolutely love the other 39.

Of course, there's the other 150+ kids in the building. Some of those kids I could do without. Like the ones we had to call the cops on last night. Then they blame me (I put up the sign) because they lost their "loud hour".

I sure thought they'd grow up after a year in college. Too bad I was wrong.
on May 05, 2006
I sure thought they'd grow up after a year in college


lololololololllllllll........................................

Oh, my. good one. Most of us don't grow up even after we get out of college.
on May 05, 2006

I was going to say things sure have changed since I was in college as my dorm walls were cinder block.  But I see that some are still like that.  But we did not have suites, just rooms.  The common area was the hall, and the bathrooms were in the middle of the hall (centrally located).

Sorry for your trials and travils.  But you are going to find Princesses in every class.

on May 05, 2006
I don't think I could do a job like yours, I just don't have patience for little princesses, and their parents who seem to think everyone should treat their kid as a princess. She'll get whats coming to her when she goes out into the big bad world, and realises that everyone isn't there to keep her happy. I hope that thought makes you a little happy, hehe!

I'm guessing all the other kids make it more than worth it though! Hope it all works out x
on May 05, 2006
Well that surely sucks! You're doing your job and being 'castrated' by all when you apply the rules, even by your boss from the sound of this.

If he's going to even think about firing you, which would be bloody unfair and cowardly, you should ask him how he expects you to do your job and whether the rules that he established should just be ignored? After all, if he doesn't have your back, then you might as well find another department to work in.


I hope it works out in your favor. People like little Ms. Princess will realise when it's too late that she can't go around hiding behind her parents. Of course some of them never do get it, especially when the parents are the same way!
on May 05, 2006
If he's going to even think about firing you, which would be bloody unfair and cowardly, you should ask him how he expects you to do your job and whether the rules that he established should just be ignored?


Excellent point FS. And that kind of thing really enables people to avoid growing up. Why bother being mature and following rules when you know that the people who should enforce them (not SHElf but her boss)won't?
on May 05, 2006
You guys make my day. Thanks.


lololololololllllllll........................................Oh, my. good one. Most of us don't grow up even after we get out of college.


Ok, true. But we have been trying to make them stop being brats. Maybe next year...

Sorry for your trials and travils. But you are going to find Princesses in every class.


We live in one of the nicest halls on campus, that's why we have the living rooms and private baths. And I know I'll always have a princess but that doesn't mean I have to like it.

She'll get whats coming to her when she goes out into the big bad world, and realises that everyone isn't there to keep her happy. I hope that thought makes you a little happy, hehe!


This was probably her first taste of the "real" world, but I doubt if she ever gets everything that she has coming to her. Her parents surely haven't. This may be the first time they've had to pay for something they did. If they don't get away with it that is.

Well that surely sucks! You're doing your job and being 'castrated' by all when you apply the rules, even by your boss from the sound of this.


These kiddies learned early on that anything the RA's said they could get overruled by whining to our boss. Now, we get no respect. At least my boss is finally seeing the results of that. They started smarting off to her and she cussed them. And they call me rude...

Why bother being mature and following rules when you know that the people who should enforce them (not SHElf but her boss)won't?


Exactly. And now that these kids are causing problems not just for me and the people I work with, but now our boss and her boss, I think they're starting to see my point.

The good news is, I talked to my bosses about it, and my job is safe. They are finally backing me up on this one, at least as far as my job goes. I decided not to ask about the charges. Don't want to push my luck.
on May 05, 2006
hmmmm.

i thought this was a 'how-to' sex manual for royals.

dammit.
on May 06, 2006
Kingbee,

You would.
on May 06, 2006
hmmmm.

i thought this was a 'how-to' sex manual for royals.

dammit.


*GROAN*

Good one tho! I will leave that one alone as I know S-H-E needs some support - and some humor!
on May 07, 2006
I should have thought about the dirty-minded folk at JU before I picked this title.

You guys make my day!