It's at times like these that I realize my life is not that bad. There are plenty of times when I complain about my life, and feel sorry for myself, but something always occurs that makes me realize that I've got a really good life. It is sad that it takes another's tragedy to make me realize that I have a good life, and each time I read about something that would be beyond my capabilities to handle.
A few days ago, I told Texas Wahine that she had helped me out more than she could ever know. She said she was surprised to read that, but it's true -- not only for her, but for many of the people here at JU. Allow me to explain.
I am impressed by many of the people here at JU. I use Tex as an example because, in the three-something years I have been here at JU, I've read a lot about her life. I've read the many things she has gone through, and read the way she has reacted to those situations. I've seen the strength she's shown, and her ability to make the best of many crushing situations. The same goes for many of the people here at JU. I've read about wives who are separated from their husbands while they are on duty in Iraq. Then, they have to deal with finding out that their loved ones will be gone longer than expected. I've read about people dealing with abuse. I've read about people who have dealt with serious illnesses and people who have dealt with death. Each time I am impressed not only by their strength, but by the outpouring of affection that follows in comments to articles.
The courage of these individuals inspires me. The strength and courage they show makes me feel stronger. They also make me realize that my life is not so bad, and that I can deal with things that have happened to me. Yes, I have been through some difficult times and I have some memories that I would rather do without. Yet each time I write about one of these things, these people, these individuals who I admire can forget their problems and show concern for me. I have never gotten a "You think you've got it bad, you should hear what my life is like." and proceed to tell me to stop my complaining. They are able to reach out to others in their pain, and offer any consolation or advice they have to give. I can write that I don't feel well, and no one tells me to get over myself (as I undoubtedly deserve) because they have been through so much worse.
I want to thank so many of you, that I cannot name each individual. I would, undoubtedly, forget someone.
I enjoy the debates I read here. I love discussing Harry Potter and certain cultural phenomena. But it is for the life-logging that I stay at JU. Seeing (or reading about) the struggles, challenges and triumphs of JU members keep my life in perspective. This is my blanket "Thank You" to everyone here on JU that has shared their lives with me and have allowed me to share my life with them. I learn here; not just interesting facts or current events, but honest to goodness life lessons.
So thank you. Thank you all.
(And Tex, I'm sorry I singled you out. If it bothers you, I'll delete the article.)